Miscommunication happens so frequently that people have no idea the other person is thinking something completely different than what they said. Words are tricky. Why? Because words have various meanings and when you put them together in a certain way in a sentence they again can have immeasurable meanings for another person. This happens because… Continue reading Miscommunication is a Given
When it comes to men, for the most part, they are ready to have sex anytime and anywhere. Women, on the other hand, are typically not physiologically designed that way. Women need to feel intimately connected to their partner, they need to feel sexually aroused and desired, and, for some, that can take time. Women… Continue reading Leave Your Inhibitions at the Door
People forget who they were before they got into a relationship, marriage, or partnership. They get lost in the mundane part of life – kids, work, chores – and forget to focus on each other. Everyone comes first except the relationship and each other’s individual needs. It is extremely important that you put your needs… Continue reading Individual and Partner Needs and Priorities
Someone who I briefly knew reached out to me for some support. I felt deeply called to help them to the point where I couldn’t get them out of my head. What was this deep connection that I had to this person who I didn’t even know? All I knew was that I had to… Continue reading The World Needs More Random Acts of Kindness
Today’s blood moon and lunar eclipse is all about receiving information, change, and experiencing radical shifts in our lives. Eclipses are about releasing and purging what is holding us back from moving forward in our life. More specially, this blood moon in Taurus is about adopting comfort, safety, security, and pleasure. It is about prioritizing… Continue reading Vulnerability – True Connection Can’t Happen Without It
Once you’ve had the opportunity to explore your own sexual pleasure, as discussed in yesterday’s post, take the time to check in with yourself and your body and see if you feel comfortable to move forward with your partner. Firstly, it is highly recommended that as you engage in sexual intimacy, and eventually intercourse, it… Continue reading Sexual Intimacy With a Loving Partner
What to Look for in a Therapist It is important that you get exactly what you need from a therapist. This is your journey, your healing, your time, your money, your effort. I want to make sure you choose the right therapist for you. As such, there are some things you need to think about… Continue reading Finding a Therapist That’s Right For You: Part 2
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